Category: Gifts of Character

“Thinking is easy, acting is difficult” is a quote from Johann Wolfgang von Goethe.  Initiative is when a thought is connected to action.  It is when you think of something and then actually do something.  So many people have ideas, a lesser number of individuals act on those ideas.  When to start practicing initiative is when we are young.

How can young people show initiative?  Here are a few examples:

• brushing your teeth keeps your teeth healthy
• exercising keeps your body strong
• eating healthy keeps you healthy
• studying can improve your mind

As a parent we can use the word “initiative” so that the child understands what they are doing and can then apply it later to other goals they may have.  When the student gets older and has a report due in two weeks, they will understand that ‘initiative’ will get them started on the report early, instead of waiting until the night before.

Initiative can be shown in any goal that we might set for ourselves.  Our goals though, need to be S.M.A.R.T.,  so that when we do show initiative, we stay motivated to complete our goal.  When setting goals for ourselves or our family we will be sure that they are: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Time Bound.
Young or old, begin with yourself by taking action in your personal life.  Once you have initiated some good habits there – you are ready to initiate actions to help others.

We will be talking about taking initiative with our students this month. Initiative is when we are willing to accept responsibiliy for taking action – and then doing so.  In fact it may be an action or it may be on an idea that we have had.  Many times getting that first step out of the way is the hardest.  We can think of so many things that keep us from starting.

The most common though is fear.  In fact for many fear has become such a habit that we nearly drown in it, having been conditioned to think that we are not good at something or we will be embarrassed or we will fail.  Then we get into the habit of passing that fear of failure on to our children. For some, everytime their child moves they are very likely to scream, “Look out!”  We do this to both our children and adult friends.

Imagine our first reaction if one of our friends told us they were going to quit their great job and become an actor.  Our initial reaction would be to warn them of all the things that could go wrong.  Now that sounds like a rather extreme example – but while we tell our children that they can be anything they want, and that today anything is possible – imagine how different the world would be if we actually believed that and we supported initiative and following your dreams.
We start by teaching our children how to show initiative.  Initiative is taking action on ideas, tasks and chores without being told to do so by others.  It is a combination of helpfulness, idealism, confidence, enthusiasm and commitment.  Initiative is how we get things done and make progress on our dreams, goals and chores.

Each month we will discuss one gift of character with all of our students. This month the word is Initiative.  This life skill will be defined in the following ways for our students.

Young students: Initiative means: I’m a self starter!

Older students: Initiative means:  Taking purposeful action that propels life forward without outside reminders.

We are not your typical after school activity, in fact we are an education center, working with students on physical self defense skills, while empowering families to bring out the best in our children and ourselves – through the martial arts.  We believe every child has 52 gifts  in them already.  They only need to be taught how to grow and use them in their life.  Balanced Life Skills serves parents, teachers and students to reach that goal.

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