Elanor Roosevelt, one of my favorite people of all time, once said; “You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.”
There are 3 things according to Jack Canfield, author of Success Principles, that stop us from doing what we know we should do or even want to do. They are; considerations, fears and roadblocks. I am not going to talk about the considerations or roadblocks right now, but I do know that fear is something that all of us feel probably everyday even if we do not identify it as fear. While fear is a good thing in many circumstances, when we allow it to get in the way of achieving our goals, it no longer is serving us in a positive manner.
Much of what we fear is made up in our imagination and we hold onto to that belief, image we have in our mind, or the experience we have had far beyond that it may have been true. Then when we try to achieve a goal that we really want, guess what happens? The picture comes back in our mind and we retreat to our comfort zone – no matter how much we want to step out and reach our goal.
This happens to kids and adults. Funny thing though as adults we have ways of hiding behind our fears. Many times that is called, procrastination. That is another subject all together. What kind of attitude do we need if we are going to get beyond our fears? We need to have a positive attitude with energy and enthusiasm. We need to break out of the prison that we are held in, one that has been largely created by ourselves of what we can’t do and all the reasons that is true, and focus on the the way we want to be. As we create the image of our success in our mind and feel it in our body, this can become our new reality.
Albert Einstein said, “The significant problems we face cannot be solved by the same level of thinking that created them.” This month we will continue to examine courage and how we can develop this characteristic as we face our fears and challenges with determination.