When I am home in Maryland in the winter, I use my bike to get around a lot. As much as I can, I like to get two short bike rides in every day, to and from work. This is not always possible and often when it is possible it remains impractical, but I really like it. I like it because it is hard, and I find that it is important to make a place in my day to do something difficult, and something that is difficult in an all-absorbing way. When I am actually at work, I do many
There are ten characteristics that create how one views the world and handles adversity. If we can see that, it will help us to understand how a child or even ourself is thinking, which in turn helps us to find ways of dealing with our anger. Over the next few weeks I will talk about all ten of them and let’s see if we can identify ways of managing this in our own house.
The first way we will discuss is the child that seems to create their own situations that lead to angry outbursts.
When a child is learning to walk, we cheer their every attempt. Finally after many “failures” they gain a single step and then all of us cheer wildly. One day in a Tiger Tot class one of the siblings just about a year old took his first step. All the moms were cheering right in class. The young child takes all this in and keeps trying until finally walking is no big deal. But sometimes as parents when the child is older we try to lessen the suffering of not reaching a goal or success. We might do it by